Pansexual y bisexual

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Awesome question. I consider about it all the time.

Here’s my story:

I identify very strongly as bi, though for a few years I also used to identify as pan along with it. Throughout those years, I went through a long process with both those words, at the end of which I dropped “pansexual” and stuck only with “bisexual”.

I’ve identified as bi since I was When I first encountered the word “pansexual” (age 22), I was very pleased with the way it sought to subvert gender binaries and to build more space for people of multiple genders and sexes. I was also really happy to use a synonyms that would distance me from the mainstream American/Western bisexual person movement(s) with its assimilationism, cissexism, “both sexes” bullshit. I was certain that pansexuality was inherently more subversive, more queer, and generally better than bisexuality.

And yet I never gave up on bisexuality as an identity. I felt as if it remained myword, but for some period I felt very apologetic about it, even to myself. The first thing that created a ‘crack’ in this way of idea was this announce in Bi Furious

Bisexual/pansexual Problems

phlegmatic1

Hey y’all @LGBTCommunity

I was wondering, what are some problems you as a bisexual/pansexual have? What are some things you hear that annoy you when you inform someone your sexuality?

I express both because they own more than one gender they are attracted to, so they might jog against some same problems.

A problem I have sometimes is not being competent to decide whether I wanna have a charming girl as my gf or be the adorable girl.

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Ouijaloveletters2

Ooooohhhh…”Sooo, you’re bisexual?” No, I literally just said I’m Pan.

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Skyler23

Everyone thinks I’m same-sex attracted. I’m not. I’m bi. But its “half gay” there go I’m apparently gay -_-

phlegmatic4

Sometimes saying I’m gay is less problematic.

Ouijaloveletters5

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phlegmatic6

“You’re dating a guy?”
“Yes, I am in a straight relationship.”
“Oh so you don’t like girls, therefore you aren’t bi”
“I will date a guy even if I’m attracted to girls.”
“No no, you must be straight, you’re dating a guy”

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Skyler27

RIGHT! The problem is that everyone

Five Pieces of Suggestion for Coming Out as Bi, Pan, Queer or Fluid

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Ahead of National Coming Out Day, HRC's Bisexual, Pan, Queer and Fluid Employee Resource Organization offers these important issues to consider when you come out. The tip is based on their experiences.

The bisexual, pansexual, gay and fluid community includes people who are emotionally, romantically or sexually attracted to more than one sex, gender or gender identity though not necessarily simultaneously, in the matching way or to the same degree.

While we are using queer and fluid here to refer to sexual orientation, queer is also a term people often use to state gender identity as well.

Coming out is different for every person. For double attraction, pansexual, queer and fluid people, coming out can present some unique challenges. Check out HRC’s resource guide for coming out as bisexual in English and Spanish.

1. People will often expect you to come out over and over, and more than once to the identical person.

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Differences between pansexuality and bisexuality

Here are some answers to questions people often ask about sexual orientation.

Can you identify with more than one term?

Anyone can spot with any romantic or sexual orientation.

Can you switch later on?

A person’s way of detecting can change at any period. They are free to prefer and to switch.

What if none of the terms feel right?

Many people find the terms aid them identify and belong, but there is no need to fit in with any legal title. Everyone is free to select their own definition or resist any type of label if they so choose.

Bisexuality and pansexuality will mean different things to different people.

Bisexuality generally refers to people who feel attracted to more than one gender. Pansexuality typically refers to those who feel an attraction to people regardless of gender. The terms differ because bisexual people may not feel attracted to certain genders.

A wide range of different sexual orientations and gender identities exists. The thinking in this area has changed and will continue to evolv