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Bears are roaming around downtown Montreal. Really. It wouldn’t be unusual to find a variety of these furry guys wandering out of the Beaudry metro station at 12 a.m. on a Saturday, clad in leather or wearing suits and ties, or perhaps a T-shirt and jeans. But don’t worry – they won’t claw your eyes out.
I should probably start by saying that the term “bear” refers not only to a massive, four-legged animal associated with brute strength (and, to some, cuddly cuteness), but also to a lgbtq+ subculture whose members have distinctive characteristics in both appearance and personality, and whose origins meet back to ‘80s San Francisco.
In the late ‘80s, Bear Magazine, a publication out of the San Francisco area, popularized the image of the muscular, blue-collar bearded gentleman and drew a fan base not only from the gay community of rural America but also gay communities abroad. Noting the success of Bear Magazine, Rick Redewell opened the “Lone Star Salon,” a now-famous bar where the bear culture developed among male lover men who preferred rock music and motorcycles to
What Is a Bear? Permit DaddyB Tell You.
Many vacation destinations claim to be the happiest place on Earth, but in my experience, Provincetown’s Bear Week has an outstanding claim to the title. For eight glorious days and nights, the Cape Cod resort becomes bigger, furrier, and friendlier than usual when the burly, hairy gay dudes known as bears enjoy a week of summer fun. I especially recommend walking down Commercial Street as the various bear packs top to tea dance on wrestling singlet night.
If you’re still not quite sure what, exactly, a bear is, DaddyB is here to further your education. (Depending on your workplace’s tolerance for mature person language, leather vests, and rotisserie chicken eating, this may well be NSFW.) Woof!
Want to hang out with Outward? If you’ll be in or proximate New York City on Monday, July 13, link June Thomas, J. Bryan Lowder, and Mark Joseph Stern—and special guests Ted Allen, of Queer Eye and Chopped fame, and marriage-equality campaigner extraordinaire Evan Wolfson—for a queer kiki at an Outward LIVE show, hosted by City Winery. Detai Pandas, husbears and cubs, oh my! As some of you may know, my brothers gay, so is his boyfriend and many of my closest friends. As such, Im quite familiar with most of L.A.s gay clubs. Generally speaking, my experience with queer culture is limited to the WeHo and Sunset Junction varietals. I talk twink, appreciate go-go dancing boys (and girls) and fully embrace the honorific moniker flame dame, the now PC term for the former f hag. One group I know very little about is the bear/leather community. So when the opportunity arose to check out Eagle LA, I jumped on it. If youre a female, the very first thing youll notice is 1) youll likely be the only girl there and 2) wonder where all these big, strapping men have been hiding in Silver Lake. Off Santa Monica with a valet parking at night I was the only girl that overnight and frankly, quite loved it. As with most gay bars, I was welcomed and treated with courtesy and deference. I had one 65 gentleman clear a path for me to the outdoor patio and yet another carve out a niche at the bar so HOME | ABOUT | INDEX | NEWS | FACEBOOK | CONTACT BEARS Gay Men BDSM|Kinky Lifestyle Police|Fire|Rescue Sports and Athletics Military Bear Community Bear is LGBTQ slang for those in the Bear community or tribe, a subculture in the gay/bisexual male communities and an emerging subset of LGBTQ communities with events, codes and culture-specific identity. It can also be used more generically to illustrate a physical type. Bears care for to have hairy bodies and facial hair. They are burly, hefty, stocky, husky, rustic, and natural. Some are heavy-set or muscular. Some are chubby. Some project an image of working-class masculinity in their grooming and appearance, though none of these are requirements or unique indicators. Some Bears place importance on presenting a hypermasculine image and may shun
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