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A Beginner’s Guide to Bottoming During Sex
FOR THOSE WHO bottom, it can be the ultimate act of pleasure. But for some—regardless of if you are new to it, returning to the bottom bunk, or still trying your best to enjoy it—it can feel like an uncomfortable chore.
Just to clear up exactly what we’re walking about here: “bottoming” refers to organism a receptive partner during anal sex. The bottom is the partner that is taking the penis or dildo inside of them, while the person who is the insertive partner is often referred to as a “top” or the person “topping.”
Verbiage aside, bottoming can cause a lot of people anxiety. I imply, it’s obvious why: despite anal sex being completely normal, it’s rarely talked about. And in a world where people are barely even taught about vaginal sex, there’s even less taught to people, regardless of sexuality, about the ins and outs of going in the backdoor.
The anus might get a bad rap, or a reputation that it’s more of an exit than an entrance, but that’s simply not true. Anal sex can be pleasurable, and organism on the receiving finish can be h
Do you remember your first time? Your first trial with another guy? Your first story with another gay guy?
It's that first moment of total pleasure when everything else disappears, and those weird “feelings” suddenly make complete meaning. Suddenly, everything falls into place: you're not a freak of nature or “different”, simply experiencing the simple joys that you were born to enjoy.
For most gay guys, our first gay experience is usually a moment of revelation and clarity that eventually leads to our own acceptance and the urge to tell the world. For others, it's a complete disaster that we prefer to forget… although one thing's for sure, you will never truly forget it!
In this post, we asked a few of our friends from around the planet to share their first gay experience with us, whether it was a first-time gay k&#;ss, their first gay love story, or something a bit more spicy(!)… and we've set it all out right here. You'll also want to check out our own love story of how we first met each other.
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Advice for Your First Gay Meeting
Taking a right on Fletcher Guide on the eastside of Los Angeles, there’s a billboard with two male figures under a caption that reads, “Sorry, This Is My First Day Being Gay.” To this day, I have no hint what the billboard is advertising, but my friends and I quote it reflexively whenever we take Fletcher to the I There is something both deeply relatable and incredibly nonsensical about that phrase. The anxiety and insecurity that comes with your first sexual same-sex encounter is universal in the queer community, and yet the thought that “being gay” is something that can be activated in a unpartnered moment is absurd.
Your first gay date, whether that be in upper school or your late thirties, can feel daunting. At the time I started questioning my sexuality, I was working in the college library shelving books during the evening shift. As a hapless dork with anxiety, every time I was in the “queer theory section” (which was expansive in my liberal arts school), I would sit on the floor and study through book after book in the hopes that some gay savv
"I went on a trip to a tropical country. I start a small, secluded, resort-type place with a bar while exploring the area. I spent the entire day there while the male, early 20s bartender served me. He had a blinding smile. At one point, he told me that no one else was around and that I could swim in the pool, naked, if I wanted. I said 'screw it' and did. He kept serving me drinks and talking, and I later said I was gonna get out and go browse by the beach. He told me since no one else was there he was gonna close the area for an hour and that I didn't have to put my clothes back on. He walked me over to the hammock and kept complimenting my body. I was into it, so I didn't stop him. He sort of felt me up as I got into the hammock (I let him), and he eventually made his way down on me"
"This was my first (and only) time a guy had gone down on me. He got naked and offered to go further. I told him I could try but only with protection. He came back with condoms, and I tried but couldn't stay up. He asked if he could try, and at this indicate I just felt I was all in anyway, so I was do